Sexuality.

Let me start myself off. I'm bisexual, and I'm proud of it. The bad part...is me. I'm having trouble accepting myself. I've not told anyone yet, as I don't think they'll all be fine with it. There's a real challenege with things like this. It's hard to live with a secret. And if I tell people, it'll get around the school, and my reputation will be ruined. How do I work with this. It may be a hormonal thing, but I doubt it. Please, I need advice.

Love, Psy <3

and what, its your business, everyone doesnt have to know.

If your parents hate gay people, then come home with a girl. If your parents are ok, then you have two options. :3 see, it aint so bad.


but in all seriousness, people wont really treat you negatively as if you're some kind of creature

now if you're gay thats a different story, they have it waaay more rough, bi are more accepted, and alot of girls do it for attention, so eh

Personally, I think that if you want to come out that bad, then just do it. If you come out instead of hiding it, then you'll get at least some respect. Although that's if you're sure you want to.

If you aren't 100% sure, then I would say that first you should think long and hard about it, because in today's society, at least one person is bound to be a jerk about it, and if you become uneasy, then your reputation could be ruined.

Basically, if you consider yourself strong enough to face jerks that will bug you for it, then go ahead, if you show them that you're strong, then they'll leave you alone.

On the other hand, if you don't think that you can deal with jerks, then I wouldn't. You'd be an easy target for them.

Ultimately, it's you're choice, which is why I'm not telling you that you should do one thing instead of the other.

Good luck.

You're 12. Sexuality when you're 12 means nothing. Most males still haven't dropped their balls by that age.

oniongravy64 wrote:

You're 12. Sexuality when you're 12 means nothing. Most males still haven't dropped their balls by that age.

Finally someone said something with meaning.
Sorry Psy but it's true

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

ya know, I knew someone who thought they were bi simply because they thought if you thought a guy was good looking. Don't be so hasty.

Shnoogle wrote:

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

I have hit puberty D:

BlackandWhite wrote:

Shnoogle wrote:

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

I have hit puberty D:

Yeah, we can notice that from you're voice and all..

oniongravy64 wrote:

You're 12. Sexuality when you're 12 means nothing. Most males still haven't dropped their balls by that age.

mhm
Lol. It's funny because it's true.
Just dont worry about it until you get into high school when people actually start dating. Maybe you'll find out you're not bi after all.

Hmm...k.

I don't think I've finished pubity just quite yet, I'll wait a few more years and see.

Thanks for all the advice.

Psycosmic wrote:

Hmm...k.

I don't think I've finished pubity just quite yet, I'll wait a few more years and see.

Thanks for all the advice.

I'm not even finished yet 100% don't hold your breath.

Orion wrote:

BlackandWhite wrote:

Shnoogle wrote:

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

I have hit puberty D:

Yeah, we can notice that from you're voice and all..

My voice is lower in real life. The mic on my computer changes the frequency of the sound.

oniongravy64 wrote:

You're 12. Sexuality when you're 12 means nothing. Most males still haven't dropped their balls by that age.

I should've checked Psy's age before writing some well thought out advice....

I'll have to agree with everyone else now that I've actually checked your age. Just give it some time.

Although if you need advice for this when you're older, then go ahead and reread my previous reply.

BlackandWhite wrote:

Orion wrote:

BlackandWhite wrote:

Shnoogle wrote:

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

I have hit puberty D:

Yeah, we can notice that from you're voice and all..

My voice is lower in real life. The mic on my computer changes the frequency of the sound.

Oooh.. sorry then

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Orion wrote:

BlackandWhite wrote:

Orion wrote:

BlackandWhite wrote:

Shnoogle wrote:

Yeah, hormones can mess with you so before saying you are bisexual and are labeled as so for life wait until you are done with puberty and are 100% sure.

I have hit puberty D:

Yeah, we can notice that from you're voice and all..

My voice is lower in real life. The mic on my computer changes the frequency of the sound.

Oooh.. sorry then

Yeah...that's what I thought at first to. When my voice actually did drop, you could notice clearly, even on technology.

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

Pialga wrote:

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

It is less than pretty inaccurate, it is wrong. Science has proven that your sexual orientation is set with you at birth through behavioural genetics (genes to the common folk).

Pialga wrote:

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

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actually I'm saying no one cared back then :> its just people will make big reactions and shun you if you're admit you're gay or bi or lesbo these days.

Evil wrote:

Pialga wrote:

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

LEARN2ROMAN&GREEKHISTORY CHILD



actually I'm saying no one cared back then :> its just people will make big reactions and shun you if you're admit you're gay or bi or lesbo these days.

Mostly just before College, no one really cares after that point.

^ yesssss

oniongravy64 wrote:

Pialga wrote:

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

It is less than pretty inaccurate, it is wrong. Science has proven that your sexual orientation is set with you at birth through behavioural genetics (genes to the common folk).

or you can be brainwashed as a child, and not see anything wrong and negative about being liking the opposite gender so you think to yourself whats wrong? you can be attracted to woman, but you can be with a man etc :3 you just have to learn to go with it.

like I said its society that tells you being a dyke is wrong

Evil wrote:

^ yesssss

oniongravy64 wrote:

Pialga wrote:

Evil wrote:

everyone is bisexual by nature, society tells you to be straight


waaaaaaaaay back then (before christianity) , no one cared

Evil -_-, from a historical standpoint, that's pretty inaccurate.

It is less than pretty inaccurate, it is wrong. Science has proven that your sexual orientation is set with you at birth through behavioural genetics (genes to the common folk).

or you can be brainwashed as a child, and not see anything wrong and negative about being liking the opposite gender so you think to yourself whats wrong? you can be attracted to woman, but you can be with a man etc :3 you just have to learn to go with it.

like I said its society that tells you being a dyke is wrong

That comment ( ^ ) made absolutely no sense at all.
If you are assigned from birth to be a person who likes 1 gender only, being told otherwise won't change that and the same vice versa. If as a guy you were told you're only allowed to love other guys, doesn't mean it will happen if you're a lover of both genders.

Use actors as a metaphor, Laurence Fishburne may play the part of Morpheus in The Matrix very compellingly but when he left the set, he wasn't still Morpheus was he? He didn't turn into Morpheus forever, only when he had to portray it through acting.

People can pretend and deny their sexual orientation all they like, but deep down it doesn't change.

oniongravy64 wrote:

People can pretend and deny their sexual orientation all they like, but deep down it doesn't change.

this is what I said, except in a more subtle way, but I needed to word my post better